People who have experienced:
Most of our support work can be put into three broad categories:
Andy was pretty controlling of Aaron. On their six month anniversary, he planned a celebration for the two of them. Aaron got his hair cut and bought a new outfit for the occasion. When he showed up at Andy’s house, Andy laughed and told him it looked ugly. Aaron started to cry, and wanted to leave, but Andy convinced him to stay. Aaron felt stupid, and took responsibility – he knew that Andy was particular about his appearance, he should have known that Andy would have reacted this way. Aaron was determined to behave better for the rest of the evening.
So when Andy started kissing him, he let him go farther than ever before. When he started to undress him and he hesitated, Andy told him that he owed him sex. After all, without him Aaron would have no friends, no life. Aaron tried to tell him that he wasn’t comfortable, but he didn’t listen. Andy had sex with Aaron anyways. Aaron started to cry when he was finished, and Andy told him to get over it before walking away.
January 29 to 31
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