Establishing Positive Teacher- Student Relationships . . . Students expect teacher more than just being friendly. According to the results of a study, students stated that good teachers:Should make sure that students did their workShould control the classroomShould be willing to help students
1. TEACHER STUDENT RELATIONSHIP
2. Establishing Positive Teacher- Student Relationships
3. Students expect teacher more than just being friendly. According to the results of a study, students stated that good teachers:
Should make sure that students did their work
Should control the classroom
Should be willing to help students whenever and however the students want help
Should explain assignments and content clearly
Should vary the classroom routine
Should take time to get to know the students and their circumstances
Establishing a positive teacher-student relationship is the most important part of teaching, because ;
It affects both academic achievement and students’ behavior.
It can provide “remedial attachment experiences” that can reduce depression or aggression.
It enhances learning.
5. Teacher as a Model Action speaks louder than words.
6. Deeper than management, teacher hope to change attitudes and even values in the confused and value defficient youngsters . This requires the teacher to be a model, or deeper yet a figure for identification, one who interacts and discusses with children, pointing the way to more successful ways of feeling and acting.
7. Research indicates Individuals are likely to model the behaviours of people whom they view as possessing competence and conrol over resources , and who are major sources of control, support and reinforcement – charachteristics possessed by teacher.
8. Research also indicates Young people ar more likely to model behaviour that is exhibited by several adults.
9. ESTABLISHING EFFECTIVE RELATIONSHIPS WITH STUDENTS
Effective teaching involves blending warmth, concern and firmness
10. ESTABLISHING EFFECTIVE RELATIONSHIPS WITH STUDENTS
Thomas Gordon (1974)- what is needed for a good relationship between a teacher and a student
Openness (transparency):limits in interfering in one another’s lives
Caring:knowing that one is valued by the other
Interdependence:dependence on each other
Separateness:allowing the other to develop his uniqueness and individuality
Mutual needs meeting:meeting one’s needs in a way that does not allow the other to be ignored
11. ESTABLISHING EFFECTIVE RELATIONSHIPS WITH STUDENTS
Noddings (1984) – moral education based on caring
Modeling: how teachers treat others
Dialogue: open-ended discussion
Practice: opportunity to be involved in caring relationships
Confirmation: validate each student’s growth toward being a caring member of community
Misconception ? students need structure and limits rather than caring
Teachers can demonstrate respect, caring and warmth toward students and still hold very high expectations regarding students’ behaviors and academic performances.
13. Creating Open, Professionally Appropriate Dialogue with Students
How open and involved a teacher wishes to be with students?
Almost complete openness ? a wide range of personal concerns and values are shared with students
Limited openness ? sharing the teachers’ reactions to and feelings about the school environment and limited sharing of their out-of-school lives
No openness ? no personal feelings or reactions, just performing instructional duties
Do not show intense intrest in students’ social activities and intrests!!!
It is devalued by students if they see that teacher does not have something more different/interesting than that of students’.
15. ‘BE FRIENDLY NOT FRIEND WITH YOUR STUDENTS’
Students often react negatively to and abuse people whom they view as merely roles, but they less often create problems for individuals whom they know and understand.
17. WHICH TYPE OF OPENNESS IS BEST?
The second type of openness, limited openness, enhances students’ sense of ownership in, and impact on the classroom environment and thus can improve classroom management and student motivation.
19. METHODS FOR COMMUNICATING CARING AND SUPPORT
Teachers should show their interest and concern for students. There are several ways:
Getting to know students
Maintaining a high rate of positive to negative statements
Communicating high expectations to all students
Giving specific, descriptive feedback
Listening to students
Responding effectively to inappropriate or disruptive behavior
20. Getting to know students Family structure
Roles and interpersonal relationships
Time and space
Health and hygiene
History, traditions, holidays
21. Ways to get to know the students Arranging individual conferences with students
in order to establish a trusting,
respectful and warm relationship.
during your preparation period,
lunch, before or after school.
Joining in school and community events
Students have a chance to view teachers in a personal light.
Joining in playground games
Show our humanness and demonsrate that we enjoy our students.
Demonstrating interest in students activities
Dramatic academic or behaviour improvement in students
22. Eating lunch with students
Listen to the student’s concerns about
personal or school problems, but do not
waste the time by talking about the
student’s schoolwork or behaviour.
Allow the children to interview and learn about your interests and life outside the school.
Sending letters and notes to students
When a student has been successful at a new or difficult task, when a student’s behaviour has improved, when a personal problem is challenging, on a student’s birthday.
Using a suggestion box
Encourage the students to write ideas for making the class a better place in which to learn.
23. Being aware of issues related to sexual harassment
Physical contact is a natural, healthy part of positive, supportive, interpersonal relationships.
As teachers we need to carefully monitor our behaviour so that it heals and teaches
but never offendsor frightens
But still, it is better to shake
hands or pat on the back rather
24. Maintaining a high ratio of positive to negative statements Children are sensitive to praise and criticism given by adults. Thus, frequent negative remarks are usually accompanied by students dislike for school. Therefore, teachers should be careful about their behaviors. Their behaviors can be put under these four types:
25. Intentionally disinviting (e.g. conscious discrimination against blacks; insult)
Unintentionally disinviting (e.g. unconscious prejudice about anything)
Unintentionally inviting (e.g. unconscious facilitators behaviors like touching)
Intentionally inviting (e.g. conscious praise, greeting the students,positive feedback)
26. Invitation: Verbal or nonverbal messages transmitted to students with the information that they are responsible, able and valuable. This fosters positive teacher-student relationship. Disinvitation: Messages intended to tell that they are irresponsible, incapable and worthless. (Purkey)
27. What about you? Have you ever experienced any of those situations?
28. GIVING SPECIFIC AND DESCRIPTIVE
When providing students with feedback, pay
attention to three questions:
how much? (Inform or correct after a mistake as much as possible)
to whom? (not only to high achievers but also to students of lower
socioeconomic status and low achievement)
what type? (specific, clear, descriptive feedback)
29. An effective feedback must have three qualities:
contingency: praise the child immediately after the desired behaviors.
specificity: praise should describe the
specific behavior reinforced.
credibility: praise should be appropriate for the situation and the individual.
30. LISTENING TO STUDENTS
Listening to students
helps them feel accepted and respected
helps them express their real concern, need and want
helps them examine and solve their problem
Empathic and non-evaluative listening:
Reduces the tension & anxiety about their true feelings
Reduces the possibility of showing unwanted behaviors
Reduces the possibility of hiding feelings that could not be showed directly
Helps to clarify their feelings and deal with a situation effectively
Two basic methods to nonevaluative listening
making oral responses while listening to student such as “yes”, “I see”, “I understand”, etc.
33. General guidelines for paraphrasing Restate their ideas and feelings in your own
Use phrases like “you think”, “it seems to you
that”, “your position is”
Avoid any indication of approval or disapproval
Look attentive and interested
Put yourself in their shoes and try to
understand what his message means
42. Responding Effectively to Inappropriate or Disruptive Behavior
When teachers give responses to student behavior that distrupts the learning environment, it is crucial that teachers give directions or requests
This is the manner that shows respect for students
and encourages them to respond positively.
43. When informing a student that s/he needs to change her/his behavior that distrupts the learning environment, the following methods may be helpful apart from sending clear requests:
Deal in the present: Young people are very “now” oriented. When important matters occur, it is vital to discuss them as soon as possible.
Talk directly to students rather than about them: Rather than talking to parents or colleagues about students, adults should talk their feelings directly to students by showing respect for them.
Speak courteously: Using courtesy statements like thank you, please, and excuse me highly contribute to creating positive interactions. asas
44. 4) Make eye contact and be aware of nonverbal messages: Teachers’ nonverbal messages should be compatible with their verbal messages because children often respond more to what adults do than to what they say.
5) Make statements rather than asking questions: :Children are bombarded with questions when they misbehave. A child who is coming late to class would probably have different feelings on hearing I was concerned when you were late because we have to leave on our field trip in five minutes compared to Where have you been?. Questions often make students feel defensive rather than take responsibility for their own behavior.
6) Take responsibility for statements by using the personal pronoun I
45. I- messages: Students experiencing behavior problems are often not as capable as their peers of understanding others’ points of view. I- messages assume great importance in helping students learn to understand others’ perspectives.
We generally have communication problems because we always say the others what is wrong with them rather than expressing how we are feeling in the situation. This leaves the person we are talking to defensive.
Teacher ? “You are being disruptive.”
“You’re late again.”
Student ? would probably feel attacked and defensive
Teacher ? “It distracts me and I feel uncomfortable when you come in
Student ? has been provided with useful information about his/her effect on other people.
46. When expressing a concern about students’ behavior that affects the teacher, the teacher should make use of three components in his/her I- message. These components are:
the personal pronoun I
the feeling the teacher is experiencing
the effect the student’s behavior is having on the teacher (Thomas Gordon, 1974)
A typical teacher’s response to a student’s interruption :
“If you can’t stop interrupting me, you can leave the room.”
If an I-message is used in this situation:,
“When you interrupt me, I become concerned because I have difficulty helping the other students. Please wait until I finish helping Sam and I will be glad to help you.”
47. Since adolescents are particularly sensitive to peer pressure, they may respond to even the most thoughtful public criticism defensively. So, it is best to send I- messages privately. Also, as most adolescents like being treated as adults, they will usually respond to private expressions of I- messages in a positive way.
A less open way to send an I- message:
When a student begins to talk to another student while the teacher is making a presentation, the teacher might say:
“I expect students to listen quietly while someone in this class speaks.”
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