Proactive Parenting. Combining Love, Logic and Consistency. Parenting Styles. What they mean and how it affects the relationship you have with your child. Drill Sergeant. Gives orders “Because I said so” Focus on what the child is NOT doing Punishments focused
Combining Love, Logic and Consistency
What they mean and
how it affects the relationship you have with your child
How you discipline your child can make or break your relationship
Definition“that which follows some action.”
In other words, it is referring to cause and effect. Sometimes referred to as “natural consequence.
If you lie often, people won’t trust you.
If you go outside without a coat, you will get cold.
Definition “pain inflicted on a person guilty of some offense.”
Ex: A child forgets to do his chores and loses TV, video games, phone, ipod, gets grounded etc…
The logistics of raising responsible children
Child yelling at parents
Child not doing work
Relationship = Foundation for discipline
Take an interest- remember why you love them
Forgive yourself and forgive you child
It is not being permissive to back off and restore the relationship.
Do we as adults respond better to people who take an interest in us?
How do you feel when you anger someone who doesn’t like you?
Lovewill provided a safe and secure environment for the child to grow and thrive.
Logic can help them to understand that their actions have an impact on other people.
They can learn the consequences of their behavior and that they have a responsibility to repair any hurt they have done.