JUSTNESS TO JUSTICE. Gilbert Brenson-Lazan. If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep . you are richer than 75% of this world. If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish some place .
JUSTNESS TO JUSTICE
If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep ...
you are richer than 75% of this world.
If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish some place ...
you are among the top 8% of the world's wealthy.
If you woke up this morning with more health than illness ...
you are more fortunate than the million who will not survive this week.
If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation...
you are ahead of 500 million people in the world.
If you can attend a church meeting without fear of harassment, arrest, torture, or death ...
you are more blessed than three billion people in the world.
If your parents are still alive and still married ...
you are very rare.
If you hold up your head with a smile on your face and are truly thankful ...
you are part of a small minority because the majority can, but do not.
If you hold someone's hand, hug them or even touch them on the shoulder ...
you are one of the very few that are willing to offer a healing touch.
And if you could read this message…
you are more blessed than over two billion people in the world that cannot read at all.
Verbal language is the way in which we can organize and modify our internal reality (perception ) and our interpersonal reality.
The use of linguistic structures which facilitate:
greater co-creation or agreement upon the meaning(s) of what is being said, and…
the number and quality of the perceptual and behavioral options being created by that meaning, for both ourselves and others.
It is the process of facilitating the empowerment of another person and the relationship with her/him person through the use of linguistic structures which invites him/her to empower him/herself:
HOW DOES CONFLICT ARISE?
A conflict arises when one person tries to satisfy a specific need or desire with a strategy que interferes with another person´s strategy to satisfy his/her specific need.
Responds best to conciliation.
Adaptation Gnass-Brenson of F.Glasl - 1998
Stages of Conciliation
6) Agree upon
Brenson, ICA-Canada - 2002
Finally, the facilitator gets out of the dialogue and remains alert to the possib ility of again intervening if the communication again becomes dysfunctional.
Then, the facilitator establishes a modeling of dialogical communication between the participants through paraphrasing.
The facilitator interrupts any dysfunctional communication between the participants and communicates directly where necessary with each one, in order to get through the first stages.
Building Group ResilienceGlobal Facilitators Service Corps(GFSC)IAF Conference - Europe October 2004
Personal Resilience (Stefan Vanistendael, 1994): the combination of:
Social Group Resilience:
Personal Development: the group stimulates & reinforces a responsible autonomy in each member:
Interpersonal Development: the group creates, stimulates and reinforces spaces and processes for effective interpersonal synergy:
Vision: the group together develops it’s direction:
Strategic Thinking: the group develops a mission and the necessary competencies to achieve it:
GFSC: our values, vision and mission
GFSC believes that people and communities are capable of self-determination and that facilitation is an effective catalyst to build, rebuild and sustain self-reliant communities. By sharing our knowledge, experience and caring we enable communities, and institutions that serve them, to identify and achieve goals.
By linking people, processes and resources worldwide, GFSC unleashes the collaborative potential of communities to create solutions to their challenges.
decision de try
abandon the process
Actual State Unfreezing Transition Refreezing Desired State