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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, TRAUMA & RECOVERY. Tonier Cain P.O. Box 175 Arnold, MD 21012 [email protected] BECAUSE HE LOVES HER. WHY ARE YOU CRYING?. He just loves me too much!. Age:6. I believed verbal and physical abuse was love. I watched my father beat my mother everyday .

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Domestic violence trauma recovery

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, TRAUMA &RECOVERY

Tonier Cain

P.O. Box 175

Arnold, MD 21012

[email protected]


Because he loves her

BECAUSE HE LOVES HER

WHY ARE YOU CRYING?

He just loves me too much!


Age 6

Age:6

I believed verbal and physical abuse was love.

  • I watched my father beat my mother everyday .

  • She’s at the hospital again.

  • He’s gone? Why? He loves her!


She found love

She found love…

  • Her new boyfriend beats her, he loves her.

  • If It’s love why does she scream and cry?

  • She’s gone to the hospital again.

  • He’s gone, why? He loves her!


Trauma felt at 9 years old

Trauma felt at 9 years old.

  • Verbal and physical abuse from mother

  • Molestation

  • Left to care for siblings

  • Started drinking alcohol


Terrified eleven

TERRIFIED ELEVEN

  • Removed from mother

  • Placed in foster care

  • Dysfunctional family


Hopeless fourteen

HOPELESS FOURTEEN

  • She loves me, she wants me back.

  • How do I live without her.

  • Attempted suicide


19 years old and beyond

19 years old and beyond

  • Drug addiction

  • Introduction to Criminal Justice System

  • Mental Institutions


Married child

MARRIED CHILD

  • He beats me, does he love me?

  • She moved in with my little sisters.

  • Abuse from him and her.


Retraumatized

RETRAUMATIZED

  • Arresting Officers

  • Correctional Officers

  • Drug Addiction Counselors

  • Seclusion and Restraints

  • Over-medicated

  • Hospitals

  • State Agencies


After trauma treatment

After Trauma Treatment

  • Drug and alcohol free

  • Secure attachment with daughter

  • Medication free

  • Advocate

  • Board Member

  • Council member

  • Homeowner and more


What if

What if……………

  • At age 9 someone recognized my trauma

  • I embraced trauma treatment then

  • School employees, hospitals, state agencies, rehabs., arresting officers were all trained in trauma


Isn t it possible that the results could ve been this

Isn’t it possible that the results could’ve been this……….

  • This child, to this woman, to this mother without the destruction

  • A THOUGHT, HUH?


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