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Better Parents and Better Children Gauh longx deix nyei die maa caux Gauh longx deix nyei fu’jueiv. Ephesians 6:4 E^fe^so 6:4. Today’s Date: January 10, 2010.

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Better parents and better children gauh longx deix nyei die maa caux gauh longx deix nyei fu jueiv

Better Parents and Better ChildrenGauh longx deix nyei die maa caux Gauh longx deix nyei fu’jueiv

Ephesians 6:4E^fe^so 6:4

Today’s Date: January 10, 2010


Ephesians 6 4 e fe so 6 4

4 Zoux die nyei mienh aah! Maiv dungx cuoqv meih mbuo nyei fu'jueiv qiex jiez. Oix zuqc ei Ziouv nyei leiz dorh longx fu'jueiv, njaaux ninh mbuo muangx waac.

6:4 ฝ่ายท่านผู้เป็นบิดาอย่ายั่วบุตรของตนให้เกิดโทสะ แต่จงอบรมบุตรด้วยการสั่งสอนและการตักเตือนตามหลักขององค์พระผู้เป็นเจ้า6:4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.


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INTRODUCTION

Better Parents

Better Children

Better Families


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I. Better Parents

Gauh longx deix nyei die maa

Proverbs 22:6

Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.

6 Njaaux fu'jueiv gan ninh horpc zuqc yangh nyei jauv, gox daaih ninh ziouc maiv leih nqoi.


Ephesians 6 4 e fe so 6 4

Psalms 127

3 Children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. 4 As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. 5 Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.

Having children is one of the greatest blessings God gives Maaih fu’jueiv se benx yietc nyungc Tin-Hungh bun daaih hlo haic nyei fuqv.

3 Naamh nyouz se ZIOUV bun nzipc nyei buonc, yungz daaih nyei fu'jueiv benx ninh nyei zingh nyeic. 4 Mienh hnyangx-jeiv lunx nyei ziangh hoc yungz nyei naamh nyouz, se hnangv forng-cang yiem mborqv jaax baeng nyei buoz. 5 Maaih forng buangv forng-ndongh nyei mienh orn-lorqc haic. Yiem zingh gaengh caux win-wangv dunx sic nyei ziangh hoc yaac maiv zuqc nyaiv.


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“What kind of child will this be?”

(Luke 1:66)

Tremendous

ResponsibilityMv baac mbuo maaih gong camv nyei oix zuqc zoux

66 Haiz liuz nyei mienh zorqv naaiv deix sic an jienv hnyouv hnamv, "Aa, naaiv dauh fu'jueiv hlo daaih benx haaix nyungc mienh ni?" Weic zuqc mengh mengh baeqc baeqc nyei buatc jienv Ziouv caux ninh yiem.

What is

At

Stake?

Soul of the Child

Fu’jueiv nyei wuonh oix hnangv haaix nor?

Souls of the Parents

Domh mienh nyei wuonh oix hnangv haaix nor?


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Proverbs 22:6

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

“Njaaux fu'jueiv gan ninh horpc zuqc yangh nyei jauv, gox daaih ninh ziouc maiv leih nqoi.”

“Train up a child

in the way he

should go…”

How to raise

a child

“…and when he is old,

he will not

depart from it.”

What he will be

as an adult

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Naaiv se gorngv hnangv haaix dorh fu’jueiv njaaux fu’jueiv

Naaiv se gorngv taux fu’jueiv hlo daaih hnangv haaix nor


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Proverbs 22:6

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

Train up: - Mold & ShapeTrain fai njaaux naaiv joux waac maaih eix-leiz gorngv fiouv fai nanv.

  • Dedicate by training

  • Strong’s: “chanak figuratively, to initiate or discipline:- dedicate, train up.”

  • Same word translated “dedicate” (Deut 20:5; 1Kings 8:63; 2 Chron. 7:5) – Training is dedicating a child to God.

  • How? - Guide them in what they need

  • Chanak - lit. means put something in the mouth. – as nurse gives an infant in order to prepare them for nursing (Pulpit).

Naaiv joux waac se benx waa-meiv, maaih eix-leiz gorngv dingc hnyouv fungx Ziouv

Chanak naaiv joux waac nyei eix-leiz se hnangv zorqv ga’naaiv dapv mienh nyei nzuih nor.


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Proverbs 22:6

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

“Njaaux fu'jueiv gan ninh horpc zuqc yangh nyei jauv, gox daaih ninh ziouc maiv leih nqoi.”

  • Train up: - Mold & Shape = Nanv & Fiouv

  • Child: From infant to marriageable age

Gu’nguaaz yiem cuotv seix daaih taux dorng jaa nyei ziangh hoc corc yiem mbuo nyei buoz-ndiev.

While still under your roof!

Njaaux fu’jueiv dongh ninh mbuo corc yiem jienv mbuo nyei buoz-ndiev nyei ziangh hoc

1 Sam. 4:21 – infant = Gu’nguaaz-faix

Gen. 21:12-20 - preteen lad = Fu’jueiv caan

Gen. 37:2 - youth (17)= Dorng Nin nyei ziangh hoc

Gen. 34:19 - marriageable age = Dorng jaa nyei ziangh hoc.


Ephesians 6 4 e fe so 6 4

Proverbs 22:6

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

“Njaaux fu'jueiv gan ninh horpc zuqc yangh nyei jauv, gox daaih ninh ziouc maiv leih nqoi.”

Njaaux fu’jueiv hnamv Tin-Hungh taaih Tin-Hungh fuh sux Tin-Hungh. Zuov ninh hlo daaih ninh ziouc maiv leiz Tin-Hungh nyei jauv. Ninh mbuo hiuv duqv gamh nziex Tin-Hungh muangx Tin-Hungh nyei waac. Ninh mbuo ziouc oix muangx mbuo domh mienh njaaux nyei waac. “Njaaux fu’jueiv yangh horpc nyei jauv, eix-leiz se njaaux fu’jueiv zoux kuv sic, zoux longx, zoux horpc nyei jauv. Buatc fu’jueiv zoux daaih mv zuqc oix zuqc gorngv mbuox ninh mbuo, maiv dungx zoux.”


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Better Parents

Teach – Instruction

Children – Fu’jueiv

  • What: Saturate them with Word (Deut. 6:1-9)

  • Who:

    • Fathers are responsible (Eph. 6:1-4)

    • Mothers should teach (2 Tim. 1:5; 3:15)

  • Why: Fatal to assume they know (Jud. 2:10)

Wuov nyungc mbuo oix zuqc njaaux haaix nyungc jauv? Njaaux Tin-Hungh nyei leiz-latc caux leiz (Nzamc Leiz-Latc 6:1-9).

Haaix dauh

Zoux die nyei mienh oix zuqc zoux (E^fe^so 6:1-4)

Zoux maa nyei mienh ( 2 Ti^mo^tai 1:5; 3:15

Hnamv daaih ninh mbuo hiuv duqv (Domh Jien (2:10)


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Show - Example

  • Examples are powerful –Nyungc Zeiv

    • Live Right - Children Blessed (Prov. 20:7)

    • Yiem horpc - Zoux duqv zingx nyei kuv mienh, ninh nyei dorn-jueiv duqv fuqv (Congh Mengh Waac 20:7)

    • Follow what see (Ezek. 16:44)

    • "Maa hnangv haaix nor, sieqv hnangv wuov nor.“ (E^se^ken 16:44)

  • Show them what want them to be

    • Christians / Faithful / Active (Ziepc zuoqv hnyouv yaac jienh)

    • Moral / Caring / Generous (ziux goux yaac maiv njapv)

    • Workers / Homemakers (Jienh zoux biauv gong nyei mienh)


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Correct - Punishment

The Punishment Should:

  • Change the behavior (Prov. 22:15) Tiuv muangx waac nyei jauv (Congh Mengh Waac 22:15)

  • Firm - put some teeth in the rules.

  • Yiem mbuo gorngv nyei waac oix zuqc maaih deix haangh daauh

  • Balanced with love / encouragement / praise Longc baengh fim nyei hnamv/orn hnyouv ninh mbuo/ ceng ninh mbuo.

  • Done with future in mind (Heb. 12:11; Prov. 23:13-14) zoux ziangx taux setv mueiz.


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Better Parents

Teach

(Instruction)

Kuinx /Njaaux

Show

(Example)

Zoux nyungc zeiv

Correct

(Punishment)

Control

Mborqv njaaux

Gunv goux fu’jueiv


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Control - Gunv

Proverbs 29:15

“The rod and rebuke give wisdom, But a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.”

15 Longc biaav mborqv njaaux yaac gorngv-njaaux, fu'jueiv ziouc jaa cong-mengh, mv baac se gorngv sueih fu'jueiv ei ganh nyei hnyouv zoux, ziouc bun maa zuqc nyaiv.

  • Children do not have wisdom - comes later

  • Need guidance & restrictions

  • Controlled by parents (cf. 1 Tim. 3:4-5)

  • Parents need to watch / know. . . .

Fu’jueiv cuotv seix daaih nyei ziangh hoc se mv congh mengh – nqa’haav hlo daaih cingx daaih maaih

Fu’jueiv qiemx zuqc domh mienh dorh/gunv njaaux ninh mbuo

Diex maac oix zuqc gunv goux fu’jueiv (1 T^mo^tai 3:4-5

Diex maa horpc zuqc goux mangc jienv fu’jueiv/yaac oix zuqc hiuv duqv fu’jueiv zoux haaix nyungc, mingh haaix.


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Give Them Responsibility

Bun ninh mbuo maaih buonc ndaam-dorng

Lamentation 3:27

“It is good for a man to bear the yoke while he is young.”

“Naaiv se longx nyei, dongh mienh hnyangx-jeiv lunx nyei ziangh hoc bun ninh hoqc linc ndaam-dorng nyei jauv.”

Teach them to work / Njaaux ninh mbuo zoux gong.

Teach them to be content (Phil. 4:11). Njaaux ninh mbuo hoqc buangv eix (Fi^lipv^poi 4:11)


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Better Parents

Teach/Njaaux

Correct/Zorc

Dingc zuiz/Punishment

Zoux nyungc zeiv

Be an Example

Gunv Goux/Control

Bun Ninh maaih buonc ndaam-dorng

Give Them

Responsibility

Njaaux ninh mbuo longc ziangh hoc

Time


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Njaaux ninh mbuo longc Ziangh hoc/Time

Ephesians 5:16

“redeeming the time, because the days are evil.”

“Oix zuqc longc duqv horpc ziangh hoc, weic zuqc ih zanc nyei nyutc zeiv se orqv haic”

  • Njaaux yaac oix zuqc ziangh hoc / Training takes time

  • Hindrances

    • Gong/Work

    • Nyienx a’nziaauc /Sports

    • Mangc dienx ziou /TV


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II. Better Children

Listen To

Parents

Ziangh horngh nyei fu’jueiv se oix muangx domh nyei waac


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Muangx Diex Maac / Listen To Parents

  • Guai nyei fu’jueiv muangx diex maac nyei waac Wise to listen to parents (Prov. 1:8; 4:1; 15:5)

  • Maiv muangx waac nyei fu’jueiv ziouc mingh dorngx jauv. Failure to listen - stray (Prov. 19:27)


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Better Children

Muangx diex maac

Listen To

Parents

Muangx mbuoqc diex maac

Obey

Parents


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Muangx Diex Maac / Obey Parents

  • Muangx waac nyei Lingc Command to obey (Eph. 6:2-3; Col. 3:20)

  • Maiv muangx waac se benx hlo haic nyei zuiz. Disobedience = great sin (Rom. 1; 2 Tim. 3)

  • Duqv zipv Tin-Hungh nyei fuqv ziangh ndaauv. Blessing - live long (Eph. 6:2-3; Prov. 4:10-13)


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Better Children

Muangx diex maac

Listen To Parents

Mbuoqc diex maac

Obey Parents

Tongx nimc diex maac

Honor


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Tongx Nimc Diex Maac/Honor Parents

  • Taaih Diex MaacRespect (Prov. 23:22; 31:28)

  • Ziux Goux Diex Maac Care (1 Tim. 5:4, 16; Exo. 20:12)


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III. Better Families

God is Feared

Word is Honored

Gamh Nziex Tin-Hungh Taaih Tin-Hungh Nyei Waac


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God is Feared Word is Honored

Gamh nziex Tin-Hungh Taaih Tin-Hungh nyei waac

1. Njaaux fu’jueiv hiuv duqv gamh nziex Tin-Hungh Children taught to “fear God” (Psa. 34:11)

2. Fu’jueiv haih jangx duqv dongh zeix ninh wuov dauh Children remember creator (Ecc. 12:1) 3. Hmuangv doic gu’nyuoz dauh dauh mienh, maaih sienx fim, gorqc zeic sienx, gorqc mienh ganh ndaam-dorng gorqc mienh nyei buonc.Each member of family - own faith, own convictions, give account of self.

4. Taaih Ging-Sou njaaux nyei waac gorngv taux haaix nyungc.Respect Bible for what it is (2 Thess. 2:13)


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Better Families

God is Feared

Word is Honored

Communicate

Gamh nziex Tin-Hung tongx nimc Tin-Hungh nyei waac

Laanh caux laanh maaih jiu tong


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Better Families

God is Feared

Word is Honored

Gamh nziex Tin-Hungh yaac tongx nimc Tin-Hungh nyei waac

Communicate

Laanh caux jiu tong doic

Hiuv duqv gorngv deix baav faix fiuv sic yaac maaih eix-leiz camv haic.

Know that Little

Things Mean a Lot


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Know that Little Things

Mean a Lot

Hiuv duqv gorngv deix baav jauv hnangv mv maaih eix-leiz camv haic

  • Little things are of greater value than – think

  • Examples = Nyungc Zeiv:

    • Meals together / “Sir” “Thank you” / Where sit

    • Juangc jienv nyanc hnaangx/ gorngv waac/ Laengz zingh/ Zueiz haaix lomh nzoih zueiz.

    • Hugs / Saying “I love you” / Less material

    • Qam doic/ gorngv “Yie hnamv meih” / Maiv mauv ga’naaiv camv.

    • “Special Time” / Lengc jeiv nyei ziangh hoc

Diqv dien ga’naaiv mv baac maaih jaax-zinh camv haic - hnamv


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CONCLUSION = NZUTV NORZ WAAC

E^fe^so 6:1 “Fu'jueiv aac, weic zuqc meih mbuo sienx Ziouv Yesu, meih mbuo oix zuqc muangx diex maac nyei waac. Hnangv naaiv zoux se horpc nyei.”

E^fe^so 6:4 “Zoux die nyei mienh aah! Maiv dungx cuoqv meih mbuo nyei fu'jueiv qiex jiez. Oix zuqc ei Ziouv nyei leiz dorh longx fu'jueiv, njaaux ninh mbuo muangx waac.”

E^fe^so 5:21 “Meih mbuo oix zuqc laanh mbuoqc laanh weic zuqc meih mbuo lomh nzoih taaih Giduc.”


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