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BREAD AND BUTTER 4 THE T-FACTOR

BREAD AND BUTTER 4 THE T-FACTOR. SAMSON ADEDOKUN. REVIEW. Bread and butter is about relationship. Part 1 focused on agreement. Embrace Concurrence Eliminate Competition Eliminate Camps Part 2 addressed the no mix rule. This rule was defined in three areas.

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BREAD AND BUTTER 4 THE T-FACTOR

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  1. BREAD AND BUTTER 4THE T-FACTOR SAMSON ADEDOKUN

  2. REVIEW • Bread and butter is about relationship. • Part 1 focused on agreement. • Embrace Concurrence • Eliminate Competition • Eliminate Camps • Part 2 addressed the no mix rule. • This rule was defined in three areas.

  3. THE WHEN in 7 principles • THE WHO in 5 factors • THE HOW in 3 actions • Part 3 was the E-Element: • Elasticity • Elevation • Enjoyment • Exclusivity • Extraordinary

  4. MATTHEW 18:2-6 2Jesus called a little child to him and put the child among them. 3Then he said, “I tell you the truth, unless you turn from your sins and become like little children, you will never get into the Kingdom of Heaven. 4So anyone who becomes as humble as this little child is the greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven. 5“And anyone who welcomes a little child like this on my behalf is welcoming me. 6But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to have a large millstone tied around your neck and be drowned in the depths of the sea.

  5. Children are a reminder of what it takes to make heaven. • Children are God’s precious gifts. • We are blessed if we treat them right. • There is grave danger if we treat them wrong. • Parents/Adults are called to deliver your children to heaven.

  6. PROVERBS 30:11-14 Some people curse their father and do not thank their mother. They are pure in their own eyes, but they are filthy and unwashed. They look proudly around, casting disdainful glances. They have teeth like swords and fangs like knives. They devour the poor from the earth and the needy from among humanity.

  7. According to Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary, our text describes four kinds of hateful persons: • Graceless Children • Hypocrites • The Proud • Cruel Oppressors • Top of this list are children.

  8. WHY? • Bad Parenting • Isaac & Rebecca • Jacob & Children • Eli & Sons • Samuel & Sons • Ingratitude • Religiosity • Evil • Disobedience or Rebellion

  9. Franklin D. Roosevelt We may not be able to prepare the future for our children, but we can at least prepare our children for the future. 

  10. SO WHAT DO WE DO?THE T-FACTOTR

  11. 1. TRUST FACTOR • The ability to have faith, belief, hope, and reliance. • Trust has a threefold direction.

  12. HOW?

  13. PSALM 103:13-14 As a father shows compassion to his children, so the LORD shows compassion to those who fear him. 14 For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust. MARK 1:11 And a voice came from heaven, "You are my beloved Son; with you I am well pleased.“ MARK 7:27 And he said to her, "Let the children be fed first, for it is not right to take the children's bread and throw it to the dogs."

  14. 2. TEACH FACTOR • Educate, inform, instruct or tutor

  15. DEUTERONOMY 11:18-20 "You shall therefore lay up these words of mine in your heart and in your soul, and you shall bind them as a sign on your hand...19You shall teach them to your children, talking of them when you are sitting in your house, and when you are walking by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. 20 You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates

  16. DEUTERONOMY 32:11 The LORD was like an eagle teaching its young to fly, always ready to swoop down and catch them on its back.

  17. 3. TRANSFER FACTOR • Pass on, handover, • Remember the principle of likeness

  18. GENESIS 1:26-28 Then God said, "Let us make man in our image, after our likeness...” 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. 28 And God blessed them. And God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply...”

  19. NEHEMIAH 13:23-25 In those days also I saw the Jews who had married women of Ashdod, Ammon, and Moab. 24 And half of their children spoke the language of Ashdod, and they could not speak the language of Judah, but only the language of each people. 25 And I confronted them and cursed them and beat some of them and pulled out their hair...

  20. ISAIAH 59:21 "And as for me, this is my covenant with them," says the LORD: "My Spirit that is upon you, and my words that I have put in your mouth, shall not depart out of your mouth, or out of the mouth of your offspring, or out of the mouth of your children's offspring," says the LORD, "from this time forth and forevermore."

  21. ACTS 2:38-39 And Peter said to them, "Repent and be baptized...every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. 39 For the promise is for you and for your children..."

  22. 4. TRAIN FACTOR • Coach, Guide, Mentor

  23. DEUTERONOMY 11:2 And consider today (since I am not speaking to your children who have not known or seen it), consider the discipline of the LORD your God, his greatness, his mighty hand and his outstretched arm,

  24. EPHESIANS 6:1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. COLOSSIANS 3:20-21 Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. 21 Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.

  25. HEBREWS 5:8 Jesus was the Son of God, but he still suffered, and through his sufferings he learned to obey whatever God says.

  26. A RECENT STORY • A pastor visited a family. • The child runs away when called by parents. • The parents laughed and said it was cute. • One day with an oncoming car they called out for her. • Rather than run to them, she ran into the car. • She was killed. • The car was not responsible it was the training.

  27. HEBREWS 12:6-11 For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.“ 7It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? 8 If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons... 11 For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.

  28. 5. TIDY FACTOR • Keep Neat • Make uncluttered • Organized

  29. JOB 1:5 And when the days of the feast had run their course, Job would send and consecrate them, and he would rise early in the morning and offer burnt offerings according to the number of them all. For Job said, "It may be that my children have sinned, and cursed God in their hearts." Thus Job did continually.

  30. ISAIAH 8:18 Behold, I and the children whom the LORD has given me are signs and portents in Israel from the LORD of hosts, who dwells on Mount Zion.

  31. DR DOBSON • One night a father and his daughter were out on a lake when their small boat was caught in a storm. As he rowed, Dad kept saying to his daughter, 'Can you see the shore? Can you see the shore?' After a terrifying hour the little girl pointed over her dad's shoulder and said, 'Yes, I see the light. Mum said if we were out after dark she would hang a light in the window.' When they finally got home a tearful mother hugged her husband and daughter, and thanked God for their safe return. Looking at her, the little girl said, 'Mum, you never had to worry. We steered by your light!' Parent, your children are being caught in life's storms. They are rowing in the dark with no sense of direction. Live for God, and give them a light they can steer by!

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