What is a safe environment for communication 怎樣是一個穩當的溝通環境 ?

What is a safe environment for communication 怎樣是一個穩當的溝通環境? What encourages 什麼會鼓勵? What discourages 什麼會使洩氣? • When the other gets mad 聽者生氣 • When the other don’t listen 聽者不聽 • Subject not interesting 對主題沒興趣 • 1 word answer 用一字回答 • Feel judged or criticized 感覺被評判或批評 • Lack of self-confidence 沒有自信 • Shows interests 表現興趣 • Over cup of coffee 邊喝咖啡邊聊 • Comfortable with subject 對主題沒有不自然

What is a safe environment for communication 怎樣是一個穩當的溝通環境? What encourages 什麼會鼓勵? What discourages 什麼會使洩氣? • Tired 疲乏 • Lack of confidentiality 缺少保密 • Lack of seriousness 缺少嚴肅 • Too many talking 說話太多 • Fear of disappointment 害怕使人失望 • Giving solution without being asked 沒被問就給解答 • Be available 有叫必應 • Good listener – gives feedback, understanding, attention 好的傾聽者 – 有反應，諒解，專注 • Word Choice 選詞妥當

Life Principles 生命原則 – Class Overview 課程概觀 • Principle of Design 設計原則 – Self Acceptance 自我接納 • Principle of Responsibility 責任原則 – Good Conscience 好的良心 • Principle of Authority 權柄原則 – Proper Submission 恰當的服從 • Principle of Suffering 受苦原則 – Full Forgiveness 充分饒恕 • Principle of Ownership 掌有權原則 – Yielding Rights 退讓權利 • Principle of Freedom 自由原則 – Moral Purity 道德純潔 • Principle of Success 成功原則 – Meditation 默想

Principle of Authority權柄原則– Class Overview課程概觀 • How is authority related to faith 權柄與信心有何關系 • Determining authorities 鑒定權柄 • Umbrella of protection 保護的雨傘 • Questions on authority 關於權柄的問題 • When and how to appeal to authority 什麼時候和如何向權柄申訴 • Reward to those who get under authority 服從在權柄下的獎賞

Authority is a specified jurisdiction delegated by God, along with the resources and power to carry out. 權柄是神委派指定的管轄權，加上資源與權力去實行。 Submission is an attitude of reverence in which a person voluntarily places himself under God-given authority as an act of faith in the sovereignty of God. 服從是敬重的態度，是一個人因神的主權而把自己自願的放在神所設定的權柄底下，是信心的行為。 Obedience is freedom to be creative under the protection of divinely appointed authority while carrying out their righteous wishes. 順從是有自由在神聖委任的權柄下，能夠有創意的完成掌權者的正義意願。

Principle of Authority權柄原則 Who is the man having such great faith that Jesus said he did not find any other with greater faith even in Israel 這人是誰，他有這等信心，讓耶穌說在以色列沒有比他更有信心的?

Principle of Authority權柄原則 Luke 路加福音 7:2-5 There a centurion‘s servant, whom his master valued highly, was sick and about to die. The centurion heard of Jesus and sent some elders of the Jews to him, asking him to come and heal his servant. When they came to Jesus, they pleaded earnestly with him, “This man deserves to have you do this, because he loves our nation and has built our synagogue.” 有個百夫長所重視的奴僕病得快要死了。百夫長聽說了耶穌的事，就託幾個猶太人的長老到耶穌那裡，求耶穌來救他的奴僕。他們來到耶穌那裡，殷切地求他說：「這人配得你的幫助，因為他愛我們的同胞，還為我們建了會堂。」

Principle of Authority權柄原則 Luke路加福音 7:6-7 So Jesus went with them. He was not far from the house when the centurion sent friends to say to him: “Lord, don‘t trouble yourself, for I do not deserve to have you come under my roof. That is why I did not even consider myself worthy to come to you. But say the word, and my servant will be healed. 於是耶穌與他們一起去了。當耶穌離他家不遠的時候，百夫長又託了幾個朋友來對耶穌說：「主啊，不用麻煩了，我實在不配請你進我家，我自己也覺得不配到你那裡去。只要你說一句話，我的僕人就會痊癒的。

Principle of Authority權柄原則 Luke 路加福音 7:8-10 For I myself am a man under authority, with soldiers under me. I tell this one, ‘Go,’ and he goes; and that one, ‘Come,’ and he comes. I say to my servant, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.“ When Jesus heard this, he was amazed at him, and turning to the crowd following him, he said, ”I tell you, I have not found such great faith even in Israel.“ Then the men who had been sent returned to the house and found the servant well. 事實上，我也被放在人的權下，也有士兵在我之下。我對這個說『去』，他就去；對那個說『來』，他就來；對我的奴僕說『做這事』，他就去做。」耶穌聽了這些話，十分感慨，轉過身來對跟隨他的那群人說：「我告訴你們：在以色列我沒有見過這麼大的信心。」那些受託的人回到家裡時，發現那[d]奴僕已經痊癒了。

Determining Authorities鑒定權柄 Family 家庭 • 1 Peter 彼得前書 3:1 Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 同樣，你們做妻子的，要服從自己的丈夫。這樣，即使有不肯信從這話語的丈夫，他們也會被感化過來，不是因著妻子的話語，而是因著妻子的品行， • Ephesians 以弗所書 6:1-2 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother”--which is the first commandment with a promise—你們做兒女的，要在主裡順從自己的父母，因為這是理所當然的。 2 「要孝敬父母，使你得福，在地上長壽。」這是第一條帶著應許的誡命。

Determining Authorities鑒定權柄 Family 家庭 • Genesis 創世紀 2:24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. 因此，人要離開父母，與妻子連合，二人成為一體。

Determining Authorities鑒定權柄 Government 政府 • I Peter 彼得前書 2:13-14 Submit yourselves for the Lord‘s sake to every authority instituted among men: whether to the king, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. 為了主的緣故，你們要服從人的一切制度；無論是在上的君王，或是他所委派來懲惡賞善的那些官員 • I Timothy 提摩太前書 2:1-2 I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone-- for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. 所以我勸你，首要的是為所有的人，為眾君王和所有在上的獻上祈求、禱告、代求和感謝，好使我們能完全敬神、莊重地過平靜安穩的生活。

Determining Authorities鑒定權柄 Church 教會 • I Timothy 提摩太前書 5:17 The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching. 那些好好帶領了信徒的長老，尤其是在傳道和教導上勞苦做工的，應該被看為配得加倍的尊重。 • Hebrews 希伯來書 13:7 Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. 你們當記住那些帶領你們、把神的話語傳給你們的人；要仔細觀察他們行事為人的結果，效法他們的信仰。

Determining Authorities鑒定權柄 Employer 雇主 • I Peter 彼得前書 2:18 Slaves, submit yourselves to your masters with all respect, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh. 你們做家僕的，應當以完全敬畏的心服從主人；不僅要服從善良溫和的，就是乖僻的，也要服從。 • Ephesians 以弗所書 6:5 Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ. 你們做奴僕的，要懷著敬畏和戰兢，以忠實的心順從自己在世上的主人，就像聽從基督一樣。

Umbrella of Protection保護的雨傘 Job 約伯記 1:10 “Have you not put a hedge around him and his household and everything he has? You have blessed the work of his hands, so that his flocks and herds are spread throughout the land. 你豈不是四面圈上籬笆圍護他和他的家、並他一切所有的麼．他手所作的、都蒙你賜福．他的家產也在地上增多。 1 Sam 撒母耳記上 15:23 For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. 悖逆的罪、與行邪術的罪相等．頑梗的罪、與拜虛神和偶像的罪相同…

Umbrella of Protection保護的雨傘 1 Peter 彼得前書 2:13,14 Submit yourselves for the Lord‘s sake to every authority instituted among men: whether to the king, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. 為了主的緣故，你們要服從人的一切制度；無論是在上的君王，或是他所委派來懲惡賞善的那些官員。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Did God ordain all human authority 所有人類權柄都是神注定的嗎? • Romans 羅馬書 13:1-2 Everyone must submit himself to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, he who rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves. 所有的人都當服從在上掌權的，因為沒有一個掌權的不是出於神。所有掌權的，都是由神所指定的。所以，抗拒掌權的，就是違抗神所設立的；違抗的人，就自招懲罰。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Is God responsible for promotions 提升是神所負責的嗎? • Psalms 詩篇 75:6-7 No one from the east or the west or from the desert can exalt a man. But it is God who judges: He brings one down, he exalts another. 因為高舉非從東、非從西、也非從南而來。惟有神斷定．他使這人降卑、使那人升高。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Are rulers to execute His wrath 統治者應該執行祂的憤怒嗎? • Romans 羅馬書 13:3-4 For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and he will commend you. For he is God‘s servant to do you good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for he does not bear the sword for nothing. He is God’s servant, an agent of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer. 事實上，對良善的行為，掌權者並不是可怕的；而對邪惡的行為，他才是可怕的。那麼，你想要不懼怕掌權的，就應當做良善的事。這樣，你就會得到他的稱讚。要知道，他是神的僕役，對你是有益處的。但你如果作惡，就該懼怕，因為他不是毫無理由的佩帶刀劍。他是神的僕役，是報應者，使震怒臨到作惡的人。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Does God have direct influence in the decisions of rulers 神對統治者的決定有直接的影響嗎? • Proverbs 箴言 21:1 The king‘s heart is in the hand of the LORD; he directs it like a watercourse wherever he pleases. 王的心在耶和華手中、好像隴溝的水、隨意流轉。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Can we resist God-given authority and still have a good conscience 我們能抗拒神所設定的權柄而仍然有好的良心嗎? • Romans 羅馬書 13:5 Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also because of conscience. 因此，你們必須服從，不僅是為了震怒的緣故，也是為了良心。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Does God teach that there is a structure of authority in marriage 神在婚姻上有教導權柄的結構嗎? • I Corinthians 哥林多前書 11:3 Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. 但是我願你們知道：基督是每一個男人的頭，男人是女人的頭，而神是基督的頭。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Must all leaders give an account to God for the way they use their authority 所有領導者在怎樣用他們的權柄都得向神交代? • Hebrews 希伯來書 13:7 Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. 你們當記住那些帶領你們、把神的話語傳給你們的人；要仔細觀察他們行事為人的結果，效法他們的信仰。 Has God established a balance of power 神有設立權力的平衡嗎? • Elders, priests, and kings 長老，祭司，君王

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Are those under authority left with no power 那些在權柄之下就沒有剩下的權力了嗎? • I Peter 彼得前書 3:1-2 Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 同樣，你們做妻子的，要服從自己的丈夫。這樣，即使有不肯信從這話語的丈夫，他們也會被感化過來，不是因著妻子的話語，而是因著妻子的品行，因為看見了你們懷有敬畏之心的貞潔品行。 • Daniel, Esther, Joseph, 但以利，以斯帖，約瑟…

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Do Christian wives have protection under unsaved husbands 基督徒的太太在沒信的丈夫下能有保護嗎? • I Corinthians 哥林多前書 7:14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 因為那不信的丈夫因著妻子就得以聖潔了；而那不信的妻子也因著丈夫得以聖潔了；否則，你們的兒女就是不潔淨的；但如今他們是聖潔的。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Is the primary purpose of authority to punish evil and to praise good 掌權者最主要的目的是罰惡賞善嗎? • I Peter 彼得前書 2:13-14 Submit yourselves for the Lord‘s sake to every authority instituted among men: whether to the king, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. 為了主的緣故，你們要服從人的一切制度；無論是在上的君王，或是他所委派來懲惡賞善的那些官員；

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Are there times when those under authority should refuse to obey 在權柄管制底下的會有時候拒絕順從嗎? • Acts 使徒行傳 4:19-20 But Peter and John replied, “Judge for yourselves whether it is right in God‘s sight to obey you rather than God. For we cannot help speaking about what we have seen and heard.” 可是彼得和約翰回答說：「聽從你們過於聽從神，在神面前是理所當然的嗎？你們自己判斷吧！要知道，我們所看見所聽見的，我們不能不說。」

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Must every leader also be under authority 所有領導者也應該在權柄底下嗎? • Ephesians 以弗所書 6:9 And masters, treat your slaves in the same way. Do not threaten them, since you know that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with him. 你們做主人的，對奴僕也要這樣做，不要威嚇他們，因為你們知道，他們和你們同樣有一位主人在天上，而且他是不偏待人的。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Should those under authority expect their leaders to quickly see their point of view 在權柄底下可以期望領導者很快就明白他們的觀點嗎? • Proverbs 箴言 25:15 Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone. 恆常忍耐、可以勸動君王．柔和的舌頭、能折斷骨頭。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Are we obligated to obey an authority who has an offensive disposition 對那有冒犯性格的權柄我們也有責任去順從嗎? • I Peter 彼得前書 2:18 Slaves, submit yourselves to your masters with all respect, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh. 你們做家僕的，應當以完全敬畏的心服從主人；不僅要服從善良溫和的，就是乖僻的，也要服從。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Is it right to join a crowd to forcefully remove an evil person from office 參與群眾用強勁把邪惡的人從他的職位除去是對的嗎? • Exodus 出埃及記 23:2 “Do not follow the crowd in doing wrong. When you give testimony in a lawsuit, do not pervert justice by siding with the crowd, 不可隨眾行惡．不可在爭訟的事上、隨眾偏行、作見證屈枉正直．

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Are there times when a person should separate from his authority 會有時候一個人要與他的權柄隔開嗎? • Matthew 馬太福音 10:23 When you are persecuted in one place, flee to another. I tell you the truth, you will not finish going through the cities of Israel before the Son of Man comes. 他們在這城逼迫你們，你們就逃到別的城去。我確實地告訴你們：在你們走遍以色列的城鎮之前，人子必定來臨。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Must we continue to respect an evil ruler as a minister of God 我們需要一直對一個邪惡的掌管者因他是神的工人而尊敬他嗎? • I Samuel 撒母耳記上 24:10 This day you have seen with your own eyes how the LORD delivered you into my hands in the cave. Some urged me to kill you, but I spared you; I said, 'I will not lift my hand against my master, because he is the Lord's anointed. 今日你親眼看見在洞中耶和華將你交在我手裡．有人叫我殺你、我卻愛惜你、說、我不敢伸手害我的主．因為他是耶和華的受膏者。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Is there a proper way to appeal to one in authority when asked to do evil 當我們被要求去做邪惡的事，有沒有一個恰當的方法去向權柄申訴? • I Timothy 提摩太前書 5:1-2 Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity. 不要嚴厲責備年長的人，而要勸他像勸父親那樣；對年輕的人要像對兄弟那樣；對年長的婦女要像對母親那樣，對年輕的婦女要像對姐妹那樣，要懷著完全純潔的心。

Questions on Authority 關於權柄的問題 Can wise appeals be nullified by wrong attitude 一個明智的申訴會被錯誤的態度而成無效嗎? • I Timothy 提摩太前書 5:1-2 Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity. 不要嚴厲責備年長的人，而要勸他像勸父親那樣；對年輕的人要像對兄弟那樣；對年長的婦女要像對母親那樣，對年輕的婦女要像對姐妹那樣，要懷著完全純潔的心。

Identify Situations in Which You Must Appeal to Authority 鑑定在什麼情況下你一定要向權威申訴 Am I being required to do wrong 需要我去做不對的事嗎? • Daniel 但以利書 1:8 But Daniel resolved not to defile himself with the royal food and wine, and he asked the chief official for permission not to defile himself this way. 但以理卻立志、不以王的膳、和王所飲的酒、玷污自己、所以求太監長容他不玷污自己。 Will there be damage to life or property if I do not appeal 如果我不申訴會有生命或財產被損壞嗎? Will my ministry be hindered 我的事工會有阻礙嗎?

Learn How to Prepare and Deliver a Wise Appeal 學習怎樣預備與表達一個明智的申訴 Talk to the person in charge 與負責人談 • 2 Samuel 撒母耳記下 20:16-17 a wise woman called from the city, “Listen! Listen! Tell Joab to come here so I can speak to him.” He went toward her, and she asked, “Are you Joab?” “I am,” he answered. She said, “Listen to what your servant has to say.” “I‘m listening,” he said. 有一個聰明婦人從城上呼叫、說、聽阿、聽阿、請約押近前來、我好與他說話。約押就近前來．婦人問他說、你是約押不是。他說、我是。婦人說、求你聽婢女的話。約押說、我聽。

Learn How to Prepare and Deliver a Wise Appeal 學習怎樣預備與表達一個明智的申訴 Establish your position under his jurisdiction 建立你在他管轄權底下的立場 • 2 Samuel 撒母耳記下 20:17 … She said, “Listen to what your servant has to say.” 她說，求你聽婢女的話。…

Learn How to Prepare and Deliver a Wise Appeal 學習怎樣預備與表達一個明智的申訴 Discover the basic intentions of the one who gave the command which is being appealed 查測要向與申訴的人他所以給命令的基本動機 • 2 Samuel 撒母耳記下 20:18-19 She continued, “Long ago they used to say, ‘Get your answer at Abel,’ and that settled it. We are the peaceful and faithful in Israel. You are trying to destroy a city that is a mother in Israel. Why do you want to swallow up the Lord‘s inheritance?” 婦人說、古時有話說、當先在亞比拉求問．然後事就定妥。我們這城的人、在以色列人中、是和平忠厚的．你為何要毀壞以色列中的大城、吞滅耶和華的產業呢。

Learn How to Prepare and Deliver a Wise Appeal 學習怎樣預備與表達一個明智的申訴 Design a creative alternative 設計一個有創意的取代 • 2 Samuel 撒母耳記下 20:21 “That is not the case. A man named Sheba son of Bicri, from the hill country of Ephraim, has lifted up his hand against the king, against David. Hand over this one man, and I‘ll withdraw from the city.” The woman said to Joab, “His head will be thrown to you from the wall.” 乃因以法蓮山地的一個人、比基利的兒子示巴、舉手攻擊大衛王．你們若將他一人交出來、我便離城而去。婦人對約押說、那人的首級必從城牆上丟給你。

Learn How to Prepare and Deliver a Wise Appeal 學習怎樣預備與表達一個明智的申訴 Quickly follow through on your alternative 趕快實行你的代替提案 • 2 Samuel 撒母耳記下 20:22 Then the woman went to all the people with her wise advice, and they cut off the head of Sheba son of Bicri and threw it to Joab. So he sounded the trumpet, and his men dispersed from the city, each returning to his home. And Joab went back to the king in Jerusalem. 婦人就憑他的智慧去勸眾人。他們便割下比基利的兒子示巴的首級、丟給約押。約押吹角、眾人就離城而散、各歸各家去了。約押回耶路撒冷到王那裡。

Be Prepared to Respond Quickly and Correctly to the Results of Your Appeal 要預備趕快與正確地應對申訴的結果 An appeal must be quickly followed with the creative alternative 申訴後要盡快遵循那創意的代替提案 • Inability to follow-through 不能遵循  lack of future trust 缺乏將來的信任 • Ability to follow-through 能夠遵循 freedom and easier future appeal 對將來的申訴會有自由也比較容易

Be Prepared to Respond Quickly and Correctly to the Results of Your Appeal 要預備趕快與正確地應對申訴的結果 Identify the cause of a rejected appeal 鑑定申訴被拒絕的原由 • Failure in you 你的失敗  clear conscience and work through with authority 得到無虧的良心，並通過掌權來做 • Failure in appeal 申訴失敗  review steps and try again 回顧步驟然後再嘗試 • Paul 保羅 – 2 Corithians 哥林多後書 12:9 • Widow 寡婦 – Luke 路加 18:2-8 • Fault in authority 權威的毛病

Be Prepared to Respond Quickly and Correctly to the Results of Your Appeal 要預備趕快與正確地應對申訴的結果 Give God time to change his mind 給神時間去改變他的心意 • Moses leading Israelites out of Egypt 摩西領以色利出埃及 Know how to appeal to a higher authority 認識怎樣去向更高的權威去申訴 Recognize when God is calling you to suffer for righteousness’ sake 辯認當神是呼召你為正義而受苦

Be Prepared to Respond Quickly and Correctly to the Results of Your Appeal 要預備趕快與正確地應對申訴的結果 Discern when it is wise to flee 辨別什麼時候是明智的逃跑 • I Corinthians 哥林多前書 7:10-11 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. 至於對那些已經結婚的人，我吩咐——其實不是我，而是主吩咐：妻子不可離開丈夫；但如果還是離開了，就應當守身不嫁，或者與丈夫和好。丈夫也不可離棄妻子。

Examples of Appeal 申訴的例子 • Church requesting new leader in young adult group • High school students rushing the field • Parents want kid to continue a courting relationship • Employer requesting employee to work on Sunday

Rewards God promised for those who get under authority服從在權柄下的獎賞: Things will go well for you – Eph 以弗所書 6:1-3 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother”--which is the first commandment with a promise-- “that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.” 你們做兒女的，要在主裡順從自己的父母，因為這是理所當然的。「要孝敬父母，使你得福，在地上長壽。」這是第一條帶著應許的誡命。 You will have a long life 你會有長壽 You will bring delight to the Lord你會帶喜悅給主 – Col 歌羅西書 3:20 Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. 你們做兒女的，要凡事順從父母，因為這在主裡是蒙喜悅的

Rewards God promised for those who get under authority服從在權柄下的獎賞: You will maintain a good conscience 你會維持一個無虧的良心 – Romans 羅馬書 13:5 Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also because of conscience. 因此，你們必須服從，不僅是為了震怒的緣故，也是為了良心。

Rewards God promised for those who get under authority服從在權柄下的獎賞: You will receive God’s inheritance 你會獲得神的產業 – Col 歌羅西書 3:23-24 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.你們無論做什麼，都要從心裡去做，像是為主做的，不是為人做的；因為你們知道，你們將要從主那裡得到繼業為報償；你們當服事主基督。

Rewards God promised for those who get under authority服從在權柄下的獎賞: You will be given clear direction你會得到明確的方向 – Prov 箴言 6:20-22 My son, keep your father‘s commands and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. Bind them upon your heart forever; fasten them around your neck. When you walk, they will guide you; when you sleep, they will watch over you; when you awake, they will speak to you. 我兒、要謹守你父親的誡命、不可離棄你母親的法則．〔或作指教〕要常繫在你心上、挂在你項上。你行走、他必引導你．你躺臥、他必保守你．你睡醒、他必與你談論。

What is a safe environment for communication 怎樣是一個穩當的溝通環境 ?