Love. Theory of Love: R.J. Sternberg . http://langleyt.people.cofc.edu/217triangulartheoryoflove.html?referrer=webcluster &. Chemistry of Love:.
“A recent brain-scan study examined the newly dumped. When subjects stared at photos of the person who rejected them, their scans resembled those of people withdrawing from drugs. So how to ease the pain? “If someone is camping out in your head, treat it as an addiction.” So to feel better:
1. CUT OFF COMMUNICATIONPlace letters and pictures of your ex in a lockbox; take her number off your cell, her email address out of your contacts, and her IM name off your buddy list. 2. GET ACTIVE.Exercise. By increasing the stores of dopamine in the brain, you drive up optimism and get renewed hope. 3. CALL THE SPA.Get a massage and hug your friends. Both increase oxytocin levels. 4. TRY SOMETHING NEW.Do novel things. “Whether it’s travel, new restaurants, new hobbies, or seeing people you haven’t seen in a while,” Fisher says, “novelty significantly elevates activity of dopamine in the brain.”