To print this bulletin board ondate and acquaintance rape…Under file hit the print function, and in the “print what” box, select slides, and click “OK”… you’ll be good to go! A lot of information options have been provided…you may want to select and print the information that you will use on your bulletin board slide by slide.Decorate this bulletin board with pictures of men, women and couples that you have cut from magazines.Enjoy the bulletin board…
or is it more than that?
Obsessing with finding someone to love
Need for immediate gratification
Pressuring partner for sex or commitment
Imbalance of power
Power plays for control
No-talk rule, especially if things are not working out
Lack of trust
Development of self as a first priority
Desire for long-term contentment; relationship develops step by step
Freedom of choice
Balance and mutuality in the relationship
Compromise, negotiation or taking turns at leading
Sharing wants, feelings, and appreciation of what your partner means to you
Appropriate trust (know that your partner will behave according to his/her fundamental nature)
Do you break it or keep it going?
Men who have a family history of observing or experiencing abuse are more likely to inflict the same abuse and violence that they witnessed. (Cycle of Abuse)
Making then breaking promises; causing others to trust us and then betraying that trust
Putting the other in a no-win situation
Attempting to change the other (and unwillingness to change the self)
Attacking the other when he/she is most vulnerable
Abusing others verbally or physically
Showing bitterness, grudge-holding, or self righteous anger
Being aggressive and defining it as assertiveness
Needing to win or be right
Resisting stubbornly or being set in one’s own way
Having difficulty admitting mistakes or saying “I’m sorry”
Giving indirect, evasive answers to questions
Defending any of the above behaviors
(Bureau of Justice Statistics)
Men…don’t believe that women should be submissive to you, or that because she dressed a certain way she wanted to have sex with you.
Alcohol makes it harder for women to assess the risks involved, and it effects the ability of men and women to make responsible decisions. It also tends to make men more aggressive.
Dating partners do not really know each others expectations regarding sex. Sexual desires should be communicated clearly and directly by both individuals as early as possible.